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2. Professional Boundaries

2.1 Relationships with people I work with

It is important to me that the feel safer when deciding to work with me - and for this reason: I keep my professional and personal life apart.

If you decide to attend sessions or workshops with me - it means we will not establish a romantic or sexual relationship or friendship. If this is not something that resonates with you - please do not come to me within a professional framework.

If we already know each other and you would like to receive support from me as a practitioner - you can let me know and we can talk about it.
Please be aware that in case we decide to move into a paid professional container - the division described above will apply.​

2.2 Communication:

If we are not currently working together - I prefer to be contacted by email (len.soma@proton.me) or via the "Work with me" tab

Once we start working together - we can switch over to Signal or another co-decided means of communication

I will respond to all messages within 3 days or sooner.

2.3 Chance encounters and overlapping social circles:

Once we start working together I will ask you whether you would like to be acknowledged (and how) if we were to meet each other by chance.

If our social circles overlap - please mention it during our first meeting. In that scenario - we will need to find a model that would allow for honouring your comfort in case we met at mutual friend's events.


No matter if our social circles overlap or not - I will never reveal the fact of your participation in neither sessions nor workshops with me.

2.3 Kink and queer spaces in Europe

If you are a member of a kink and queer community, like I am - it is best we discuss the spaces and events we take/took part in at the beginning of our work together. We can then figure out how to build a frame that can allow for our further participation in those without potential overlaps.

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If the above resonate with you - I am happy to open my space for you!
Meet me at a time, that feels best:

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